Say sorry with a card
Sometimes the words come out better written down. Make a calm, sincere apology card and send it when you're ready to talk.
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Wishes to choose from
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I got it wrong, and I'm sorry. You deserved better from me, and you'll get it.
No excuses, just an apology. I'm sorry I hurt you.
I'd rather lose an argument than lose a moment with you. I'm sorry.
I've been thinking about what I said. You were right, and I'm sorry.
Can we start this conversation again? This time I'll listen first.
A few tips
A good apology names what you did, doesn't make excuses and says what will change. A card can't do the whole job, but it's a gentle way to open the door, especially when talking face to face is still hard.
Keep the message short and honest. Then follow up in person. If you'd like to add a gesture, flowers or her favourite dessert say 'I'm trying' without making it about the gift.
Questions
Is a card enough to apologise?
It's a good first step. Follow it with a real conversation.
What should a sorry message say?
What you did, that you understand why it hurt, and what you'll do differently. No 'but'.
Which design suits an apology?
Sage or Blush feel calm and soft. Avoid Confetti for this one.
Pair it with a real gift
A digital gift says it now. A real one arrives to say it again.
Premium chocolate box
Handmade truffles or a Belgian assortment. Small, elegant and easy to send.
Purple orchid bouquet
Orchids last far longer than roses, so the gesture stays on the table for a week or more.
Preserved rose in a glass dome
A real rose treated to last for years. Romantic without being one-day-only.